Good donors are diamonds in a rough

Getting ghosted by a sperm donor isn’t talked about enough. But it happens. And when it does, it can feel deeply personal.

You’ve done the emotional work. You've chosen this path intentionally. You finally find someone who matches your criteria — only for them to disappear just as things get serious.

🛑 It’s painful, and it’s common.

In this video, we talk about:

Why donors ghost (and how it’s often about them, not you)

How to protect your time and emotional bandwidth

Why making a post about being ghosted can actually lead to a better match

The reality: finding a good donor is like finding a diamond in the rough — but they are out there

We also explain how to screen for serious, consistent donors from the start:
✔️ Look for transparency around process & testing
✔️ Confirm consistency in communication
✔️ Use platforms like GoKidu that vet and verify matches
✔️ Always set clear boundaries early

For many recipients, the urge to become a parent is rooted in love and deep longing. Getting ghosted stings because it's not just a conversation ending — it's a dream delayed.

But you’re not alone. We've helped countless recipients find the right match after they were ghosted.

✨ One match can change everything. But only if you keep going.

💛 DM us “MATCH SAFELY” or visit https://www.gokidu.com if you're navigating disappointment and ready to try again — with real support this time.

Watch full podcast: https://youtu.be/l6nJF_Xb-gU?si=FJexLW5BNuyZ8eu0

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