Choosing a Donor: Looks, Genetics & What Really Matters

When selecting a sperm donor, many people start with physical characteristics — eye color, hair texture, height. And yes, those traits do matter to many. Especially when you want your child to feel connected or familiar within your family structure.

💡 But there’s more to consider than just appearances.

In this video, we go beyond surface-level traits and talk about what you really need to think about when choosing a donor:

🔬 What’s Inside Matters More:
- Does the donor carry any recessive genetic conditions like sickle cell trait  or cystic fibrosis?
- Has he undergone genetic testing or is he willing to?
- What about basic health screenings or allergy history?

For many recipients — especially those who know they carry a recessive gene — these questions are not optional. They are critical.

Even if the donor seems like a perfect match on paper (or by photo), you need to know:

If you’re genetically compatible
- What conditions could be passed on to your child
- Whether this donor takes health transparency seriously

⚠️ Some donors won’t get tested.
Often, it’s due to concerns around privacy or data ownership (like DNA stored by testing companies). That’s fair — but it still might be a dealbreaker for you.

You have every right to set your standards. This is your future family.

💛 Pro Tip:
Start by getting your own genetic screening through your OB/GYN. Then, look for donors whose results help you make an informed, safe decision.

At GoKidu, we support recipient-first matches — that means verified screenings, transparent health info, and legal protection.

📩 DM us “GENETICS” or visit https://www.gokidu.com to learn how to match based on both science and heart.

🔔 Subscribe for more family-building insights, fertility guidance, and inclusive donor support.

‍